Staying Sober in an Addictive World

A Pocket Paper
from
The Donelson Fellowship
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Robert J. Morgan
November 16, 2003

 


 

This is going to be a great week for all the so-called “Ditto-heads” in America, because it’s been announced that Rush Limbaugh is returning to his radio broadcast tomorrow.  He’s the most listened-to talk show host in America, but he has been sidelined for the last month, in re-hab, battling an addiction to pain killers.  He’s just the most recent in a long line of American celebrities who have announced they are battling various addictions.

 

This week the popular singer Courtney Love was in a Los Angeles courtroom on drug possession charges asking the judge to send her to drug rehabilitation instead of to jail.  Her late husband, Kurt Cobain, committed suicide became of his addiction to heroin. 

 

We read in the newspaper this week that country singer Wynonna Judd was charged with driving under the influence after a city police officer stopped her speeding Land Rover not far from Music Row.

 

As we’re beginning to wrap up our topical messages for this fall on the issues we face as Christians today in America, I’d like to devote a message to the subject of addictive disorders.  I’ve heard psychologists say that we are the most addictive prone society in history.  The mobility of our population, the break-up of the family, the loss of spiritual roots, the entertainment orientation of our culture—all this sets us up for addictive disorders.  And there is a wide variety of addictions that can draw us into bondage.

 

Alcoholism is one.  It’s epidemic in our society.  Drug addiction is another.  Ditto smoking.  The first person whose death I ever witnessed was a man who had spent his entire life smoking.  It had given him lung cancer, and his death was a horrible thing to observe.  But what I remember most clearly about it was that as soon as he passed away, his son, who had been with us at his bedside, went out and lit a cigarette.

 

And then there are all kinds of sex addictions and pornographic addictions. 

 

Some suffer from gambling addictions.  We’re about to see more and more of that in our state of Tennessee as Rebecca Paul and her dubious friends from Georgia come up here and earn their hundreds of thousands of dollars at our expense.  I’ve read that gambling addictions occur more quickly than other addictions.  I don’t know if that’s true, but I do know that in states that allow casino gambling, the casinos send buses to the retirement homes and to senior citizen centers on the day after social security checks arrive.  They bus these seniors to their dens of iniquity, and wine them and dine them, then they put them in front of their slot machines and rob them of their social security checks.  And nobody seems to say a thing about it.  I don’t understand it.

 

We are a nation in the grip of scores of life-altering, self-destructive addictions.  For this sermon, I’d like to define an addiction in this way:  An addiction is any kind of self-destructive pattern in your life that is difficult to control.

 

Now, I want to issue a caveat here at the beginning of the message.  I am not a psychologist or a trained therapist.  That’s not my role.  I’m a pastor, a Bible student, and a theologian.  And I start with a basic biblical premise:  All our problems have spiritual roots.  Now, if a psychologist or a trained counselor were asked to speak today on this issue, they would take a totally different approach, and they would say some very, very useful things.  I’m not disputing the wise advice of a godly counselor.  I’m just saying that I’m going to approach this subject like I approach every subject.  I like to ask the question:  “What does the Bible say about this?”  And I think we can find a lot of answers to that question in the book of Romans.

 

Romans is the Bible’s premier theology book.  It’s the letter that Paul sent to the church at Rome in order to leave with them—the central church of the Roman Empire—a copy of His systematic teachings about justification by faith.  But Romans isn’t just a theology book.  It is enormously practical.  It tells us how to live.  And it tells us how to deal with addictive disorders.  Look at this passage, for example, in chapter 6:

 

What then?  Shall we sin because we are not under the law but under grace?  Certainly not!  Do you not know that to whom you present yourselves slaves to obey, you are that one’s slaves whom you obey, whether of sin leading to death, or of obedience leading to righteousness?  But God be thanked that though you were slaves of sin, yet you obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine to which you were delivered. And having been set free from sin, you became slaves of righteousness.  I speak in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh.  For just as you presented your members as slaves of uncleanness, and of lawlessness leading to more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves of righteousness for holiness.  For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness.  What fruit did you have then in the things of which you are now ashamed?  For the end of those things is death.  But now having been set free from sin, and having become slaves of God, you have your fruit to holiness, and the end, everlasting life.  For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

 

This is one of the best passages in the entire Bible as it relates to our subject today.  In summary, we can say that this passage teaches us four things about addictions:

 

First, addiction is a form of spiritual slavery.  Look at verse 16:  Do you not know that to whom you present yourselves slaves to obey, you are that one’s slaves whom you obey, whether of sin leading to death, or of obedience leading to righteousness?

 

I have a theory about addictions.  I believe that our enemy, that old serpent, Lucifer, the Devil, wants to destroy us.  But he is so evil that he gets sadistic pleasure in manipulating us into destroying ourselves.  If there is anything he loves more than the destruction of a human life, it is the self-destruction of a human life.  And addiction is a form of spiritual slavery in which we destroy ourselves.

 

That leads to the second truth about addiction in these verses:  Addiction brings shame and death.  Verse 21 says:  What fruit did you have then in the things of which you are now ashamed?  For the end of those things is death.

 

Many people in this room know what it’s like to live in fear for the life of someone we love who is in the grips of an addiction.  How tragic it is when one of our precious loved ones is lost because of a self-destructive addiction.  It may be a slow death such as comes from the lung cancer of a smoking addiction; or it might come in the sudden destruction of an alcohol-related car crash.  But addiction is a form of spiritual slavery that brings shame and death.

 

But the third truth about addiction in these verses is a surprising one:  The power of addiction is broken by doctrine.  Look at verse 17:  But God be thanked that though you were slaves of sin, yet you obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine to which you were delivered.

 

The word “form” comes from the Greek word tupos, meaning type.  It was the idea of something stamped.  Have you seen a man take a hammer and a metal rod bearing an insignia on the end and with a mighty blow he stamps the insignia on a metal plate?  That’s the idea.  It has to do with something that is indelibly and indestructibly written or posted or stamped.

 

The word “doctrine” is the word didacha, the Greek word for teaching.  So Paul is telling us here that there exists a truth or a teaching that has the power to break the cycle of sin and addiction that makes us destroy ourselves.  What is this truth?  What is this teaching?  It’s the truth and the teaching of the book of Romans.  We have it summarized for us in the last verse of our passage:  For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

 

As Charles Wesley put it:

 

He breaks the power of cancelled sin

And sets the prisoner free:

His blood can make the foulest clean,

His blood availed for me.

 

I have based my life and my ministry on the proposition that Jesus Christ is Lord, and that He has the power to cleanse and to cure us of the tyranny of Satan and sin.

 

The fourth truth is this:  We must deliberately choose to live in that freedom.  That’s Paul’s primary point in this paragraph.  Look at verse 19:  I speak in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh.  In other words, he is saying, “I know you are human beings, and we human beings have trouble grasping divine truth, so I’m using an analogy here and framing this in terms of slaves and masters.”  I speak in human terms because of the weakness of your flesh:  Just as you presented your members as slaves of uncleanness, and of lawlessness leading to more lawlessness, so now present your members as slaves of righteousness for holiness.

 

This is the primary emphasis of chapters 6, 7, and 8 of Romans.  Just because we have come to Christ for salvation doesn’t mean we’re going to experience consistent victory over sin.  Paul was concerned that there were Christians who were officially now serving Christ but were, in practical terms, still serving sin.  Look at the way he began the chapter:  What shall we say then?  Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound?  Certainly not!  How shall we who died to sin live in it any longer?

 

Verse 11:  Likewise reckon yourselves to be dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord.  Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts.  And do not present your members as instruments of unrighteousness to sin, but present yourselves to God as being alive for the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God.  For sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under the law but under grace.

 

In other words, it takes an intentional effort on our parts to live consistently in the victory Christ as provided.  We must make up our minds that having received Jesus Christ as our Savior, we are going to live with Him.  We must learn to break the addictive patterns and become slaves of righteousness through the power that He provides.

 

Now, with that as background, what can we tell someone who is wanting to overcome an addiction in life?  As I read again through the book of Romans on this issue, I’d like to share with you twelve steps to victory.  This is the Romans version of the famous 12-step program.

 

  1. Realize that without Christ we are all in the same boat.  We’re all battling bondage to sin.  Look at the way Paul puts it in Romans 2:1.  After listing all kinds of terrible sins, he says to his moral and outwardly upright reader:  Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things.  In other words, all of us are in the same boat; all of us are in bondage to sin; all of us struggle with sinful patterns in our lives.  You aren’t alone in this.  Even the apostle Paul battled sin in his Christian life.  Look at the way he described his struggle in chapter 7:  For what I am doing, I do not understand.  For what I will to do, that I do not practice; but what I hate, that I do.  If, then, I do what I will not to do, I agree with the law that it is good.  But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me.  For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells; for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find.  In other words, even the great missionary Paul struggled with the sinful patterns that were within him.  In another place, he said, “There is no temptation that has taken you but that which is common to man.”  We may have different weaknesses and different areas of temptation, but we all battle the ever-lurking danger of spiritual bondage and slavery to sin.

                                                                                      

  1. Admit your problem.  Breaking through denial is the first step toward recovery.  Romans 3:23 says:  “All have sinned and have fallen short of the glory of God.”  I think that it’s important not only to be willing to admit, “I have a problem here; I need help.”  It is also important to admit, “My root problem is spiritual in nature.  It is a heart in rebellion against God, and I am willing to confess my sins and to deal with them with His help.”

 

  1. Claim victory in Christ.  Romans 8:37 says:  Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us.  Romans 5:17 says that God intends for us to reign in life through one man, Christ Jesus. 

 

  1. Soak up God’s love.  Realize that Jesus is what you’re looking for.  A lot of addictions may be caused by our efforts to satisfy something that is lacking in our hearts.  Without Christ, our hearts are empty.  We try to drown that emptiness in alcohol or some other addiction, but our hearts are made for Christ and nothing else satisfies.  Romans 5 says that when we are justified by grace through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, and He pours the love of God into our hearts by His Holy Spirit.  Romans 8 says that the Spirit Himself bears witness with our spirits that we are children of God, and if children then heirs.  Jesus loves us, and His love can satisfy every lonely and empty spot in your heart, if only you will let Him do it. 

 

  1. Exercise self control.  God will help you, but you have to really want His help and you have to make up your mind you’re going to conquer your addiction, whatever it is.  Look at Romans 12:1-2:  I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.  And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.  Look at the last verse of Romans 13:  But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts.

 

  1. Enlist the help of others.  Few can overcome a sinful pattern without the help of a Christian friend or a wise counselor.  Look at Romans 15:1:  We then who are strong ought to bear with the scruples of the weak, and not to please ourselves.  Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, leading to education.  And down in verse 14:  Now I myself am confident concerning you, my brethren, that you also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, and able also to admonish one another.  One translation says, “Competent to counsel one another.”  Sometimes our best counselors are our closest friends in whom we can confide, who will tell us the truth, who will pray for us and hold us accountable.  Lean on such friends.

 

  1. Along those same lines, seek counseling.  God has given to the church some who are gifted with the gifts of wisdom and knowledge.  They have the ability to help people work through their difficulties and to apply biblical principles to the problems of life.

 

  1. Accept freely God’s forgiveness.  Anyone who is entangled in sinful or dysfunctional life patterns suffers guilt because of it, and with the guilt comes a lost of self esteem.  But look at Romans 4:7-8:  Blessed (happy, joyful, healed, restored, fulfilled) are those whose lawless deeds are forgiven, and whose sins are covered.  Blessed is the man to whom the Lord shall not impute sin.  In restoring our damaged self-esteem, the greatest thing we can ever realize is that God loves us so much that He has made available to us the ultimate sin-remover—the blood of our Lord Jesus Christ Christ.

 

  1. Trust God for His deliverance.  You and I can never overcome any sin—not even the smallest one—in the strength of our own power.  We have to trust God for His deliverance.   God intends for you to be free.  He has promised that we can be more than conquerors through Christ who loves us.  And we must believe that He has the power to do what He has promised.  Look at 4:20ff:  He did not waiver at the promise of God through unbelief, but was strengthened in faith, giving glory to God, and being fully convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform.

 

  1. Fill your mind with Scripture.  Look at Romans 8:5:  For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit.  For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.  I would advise you to go back to Romans 6, and to personally claim some of the verses that are there.  Romans 6 is full of powerful verses, like verse 11:  Likewise you also, reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord.  Recently I memorized verses 1-2 from this chapter:  What shall we say then?  Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound?  Certainly not!  How shall we who died to sin live any longer in it?  There’s a great power in Scripture memory, because it allows the truth and the word of God Himself to penetrate your mind, to sink into your conscious thoughts and into your subconscious mind and into your unconscious moments with its healing strength.  We are what we think about.  The Bible says:  “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”  So if you can change the way you think, you’ll change the way you live and you’ll change the kind of person you are.  The best way to change the way you think is to begin memorizing the Bible and hiding God’s Word inside your heart.  I don’t think you have a more powerful weapon in this world when it comes to battling addictions than the deliberate, systematic memorization of Scripture.  If you wanted to, you could memorize a verse from Romans 6.  In fact, if you wanted to and if it was really important to you, you could memorize the whole chapter—which is my goal.  If fact, if you made up your mind to do it, you could memorize all of Romans 6, 7, and 8—this entire section having to do with sanctification and with victory over sin—and I don’t believe the devil can ever do very much with a person who is full of Romans 6, 7, and 8.  The Bible says, “Let the Word of God dwell in you richly.”  Romans 12 says that we are transformed by the renewing of our minds.  We haven’t been doing that, and as a result the vacuum in our hearts and minds has become the home of all of these addictive disorders.  You can push them out again through the power of the memorized Word of God.

 

  1. Be an optimist about the future.  One day all those who are in Christ will be out of sin’s reach.  Our best days are yet to be, and Romans 8 says that the sufferings of this present world are not worth comparing with the glories that shall be revealed. 

 

  1. Finally, don’t give up.  Sometimes when we’re battling an addictive pattern in our lives, God sees fit to remove it all at once, once and for all.  But normally we still struggle with the temptation, and sometimes we fall and we become discouraged and we want to give up.  I want to say to you today, “Don’t give up.”  If you’re praying for someone for whom you are burdened, don’t give up.  I want to give you one final verse on this subject from Romans and I’d like for us to close our message to day by reading it together—all of us—aloud.  This is the Bible’s message for sinners for whom Christ as died.  It is Romans 16:20

 

And the God of peace will crush Satan under your feet shortly. 

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.

 Amen.


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